7 sex promises to make to yourself in 2021

When else can you turn the page and start a new life? Of course, on New Year's holidays! You can start with a clean slate and review your sexual behavior first, for example. And we will show you how to do it correctly.

In order to radically change your life and the attitude of others, you need to leave your bad habits in the past and make a list of tasks that you want to solve in the new year. And you can start, for example, with the sexual aspects that you would like to change or correct.

Accept yourself

Uncertainty about one's own attractiveness often becomes the reason for the lack of interest on the part of the opposite sex. To prevent this from happening, you need to love yourself and your body, because even supermodels, upon close examination, can find many flaws. Moreover, sexologists assure that there is nothing sexier for a man than a naked body, and all imperfections fade into the background.

Choosing partners meticulously

Psychologists advise to be more discriminating in relationships and not throw yourself around the first comer. In other words, if you are only interested in family and stability, then you do not need to settle for an open relationship or friendly sex. Listen to your heart, appreciate and respect yourself.

Disagreeing with things that are not enjoyable

Don't settle for things that are unacceptable or not enjoyable to you. It's just your body and your life, so you can give up sex at any time. And if you decide on some kind of experiment, then first make sure that you can really trust your partner.

Do not deceive yourself and your partner

If you suddenly want to cheer up a partner who is trying to please you, but cannot do it in any way, you should not fake an orgasm. Just believe that it doesn't lead to anything good. Otherwise, the next time your lover repeats the same actions, and you feel nothing at all, he will accuse you of doing everything cool, which means that the problem is in you. Therefore, it is better to openly discuss what you like and what gives you discomfort.

Fulfill at least one sexual fantasy

Even if up to this point you have not discussed with your chosen one sexual fantasies that no-no yes pop up somewhere in your subconscious, then take the courage and confess at last. Be frank about what turns you on, perhaps your lover dreams of the same.

Try role-playing games

Sexologists claim that the quickest and easiest way to improve (and diversify) relationships is to role-play with your partner. Discuss in advance what you like and go ahead! And if you are not yet ripe for costumes, then start with cubes where various poses fall out, an erotic twister or board games like "Party in bed".

Gather the courage and go to the sex shop

If you have not yet crossed the threshold of this store, then in the new year is the time to do it. Stop by and you will be surprised how many interesting things you can buy there. And if, nevertheless, the shyness still persists, then start with the online version of the sex shop.